We All Scream For Ice Cream!

Yes. It's been a while. Of course, very typical of me. But now I'll introduce y'all to the next thing I did after emptying my wallet for dinner the first night.

Next, I went to a movie (Pitch Perfect 2!!!) and got ice cream afterwards. Alone.. Yes. I know. It sounds sad and pathetic, but it was actually fantastic. I didn't have to show up early because there were plenty of 1-seat spots left in the theater. I didn't have to share my popcorn (& melty MnM's). And I was able to relax and laugh obnoxiously without having to worry about embarrassing myself in front of anyone I knew (because I would really care about that in the first place.. NOT).

Ps. The theater had recliners! AND 2 cup-holders for each seat, including separate arm-rests so you didn't have to fight your neighbor for one. Like whaaaat????

Afterwards, I went to this fantastic place called J.P. Lick's. I'm assuming it's something comparable to our Marble Slab or Ben & Jerry's. But it was even more magical. They had ice cream, and froyo, and coffee, and breakfast (served all day), and cakes, and all sorts of gluten-free stuff, AND they even had a puppy treat!

I ordered myself a small waffle cone with one of their monthly flavors: Salty Caramel. I was able to sit on a chair, all alone, and enjoy the breeze and flavors in silence. It was pure joy.

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